Wednesday, 6 April 2016

What To Do When You Are In an Uncommitted Relationship As a Lady

What To Do When You Are In an Uncommitted Relationship As a Lady
You are a dream woman of every guy. Not only pretty, loving, caring but also a responsible and committed type of lady. Unfortunately, despite all you good gesture and commitment, you just found yourself in a relationship with a guy who is completely scared to be committed. The more you try to draw him closer, the farther he runs away.

Are you feeling dejected because you are stuck in an uncommitted relationship? As a lady, is your man unserious about your relationship? How do you feel being in an uncommitted relationship when you are ready to give it all it takes to make the relationship survive? Are you tired and planning to walk out? Is someone teaching you how to be in an uncommitted relationship without complaining? Or you are just trying to cope?

Are You In An Uncommitted Relationship And What Does It Means?
Being in an uncommitted relationship is not about distance, neither it is about finance nor togetherness. I have seen several couples who live under the same roof and yet they are not committed to the relationship. 

Also, it is not new to see partners long distance affairs exhibiting a high level of commitments in the relationship. Therefore, commitment in a relationship goes beyond physical distance

So what Is Uncommitted Relationship?
When can we say a partner is not committed? The simple response to this is that, a partner is said to be uncommitted in a relationship when he is inconsistent in his feelings and behavior towards you. Each time you think of this, it often makes you confused about his feelings towards you and the relationship. 

Today, you feel he is for you, and tomorrow you are in doubt. He doesn't really knows what he wants. Like he is not sure weather he needs to be in a relationship with you or not. Mentally, he can't do anything to make the relationship successful. That is what it takes to be in an uncommitted relationship.

What Causes Uncommitted Relationship?
Our world today has changed, and things are no longer what they were. We now have people in numerous casual relationships, sexual freedom and the free will to do whatever we like with your lives without any cultural influence.

This has completely changed the real definition of what committed and legitimate relationship. It is not new that, so many people prefer partners who wont take things serious and remain casual (Just For Sex). To me, casual relationship simply means a partner wants to get the benefits without the burden of a relationship.

The Reasons Why You Have To Quickly Go Out Of Uncommitted Relationship: Below are few of the things your uncommitted does to frustrate you in a relationship.
  1. He just want to keep it open and nothing serious attached to the relationship. No commitment, no security and no promises.
  2. Don't want anything productive out of the relationship
  3. They want to make it easy for them to break your heart without been blamed for it.
Therefore, the moments you discovered that you’re in an uncommitted relationship, you have to decide whether to stay and accept your faith or end it once and for all since they are not ready to change.

Or what do you think?


  1. Sometimes both parties agree that there should be no string attached but i call that stupidity.. Thanks for sharing let those that have ears hear.

    1. That's casual dating. You are welcome Gloria

  2. but what if the man is ready to stay commited but was wondering if this is the right time for the two of them todo so?

    1. Sir that's another question on a topic I've written on. Titled when is the right time to get married.

  3. i used to be in that shoe but thank God i am free,lmao


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