Tuesday, 12 May 2015

When is the right time to get married?

Hmmmmmmm this topic specifically is not what I generated from an outsiders rather from a very close person to me. During the course of our discussion last night, we came about a question on marriage and the question was " when is the right time for someone to get married?"

Though as any good religious person will answer the same question, she replied God's time. I never had a doubt of mind about that anyway, but psychologically that may not be a satisfactory reply t
o someone who don't understand religion to that level.

So literarily, when is the right time to get married? Looking at our environment, younger women in their 20s feel pressured by parents and friends to focus on education and career first. On the contrary, ladies of above 35years will be under tough pressure to get engaged, which could lead to making wrong choice at the end of the day because pressure may make it difficult for them to identify a fake relationship.

Personally the right time to get married by any one is when you find the right person. Marry someone you love with your whole heart. Someone who excites you emotionally, spiritually intellectually and sexually.

Once you get a person you want to share things with from the smallest details of your day to the biggest plan of your life. Don't delay to marry someone you always want to be with at the end of each day to the end of your life. You must also know how to avoid been heartbroken.

Never get married because you felt it is time, let it be because you've found the right person. Find the person who encourage you to be you best self. At any point of maturity age when you found some like this, I believe it is the right time to get married because(all things been equal). By getting married at that time is the best way of expressing your gratitude and love to the person who has given you the greatest opportunity
of sharing their life with you.

1 comment:

  1. I totally agree with this that once one found the right partner, one should get engaged with that person.
    The bitter part is i once found *that person* but No #3 of this list before marriage was a BIG hindrance


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