Monday, 12 October 2015

How To Improve The Quality Of Your Life And Live Your Best life

How to improve your lifestyle and live your best life
This is a topic I wanted to talk about for more than a week ago. But my tight schedule has never allowed me to be privileged in writing about it until now.

One of the boys I mentor asked me this question " Please how can I improve the quality of my life and live my best life?"

As young as he is, he was able to realise that, it is very much possible to be living a life free of problem, and yet, you are not living your best life. 

In our discussion with him, I was meant to know that, you can be living a life where you never for once lack anything...

 Possibilities Of Not Living Your Best Life

You are a professional in your field, you have  houses, cars and every other necesity in life and yet, someone that lack those facilities is still living his best life than you.

You might not be sick, emotionally down or be run by anxiety, and yet you are not experiencing the joy of living an healthy lifestyle.

You might be a very young man or lady who just graduated from school, got a good job.
Your job might be lucrative and you are doing good at work. 

You are been paid a reasonable salary. And yet, you are not still living your best life to unlease your highest potential. 

Its possible you have occupied the highest possible position in are the boss, you are not under control of anyone, yet something is still missing in your life.

With this post, I just want to tell you that, life can be challenging without you having a negative feeling. You are not lacking anything, does not mean you've reached your destination. 

As a human being, it is very possible that
your quality of life might be low but you won’t even know. You won't know because you are the type that settle for less.

I have seen so many couples who were living together under the same roof. They've never had a problem, but they are not enjoying the benefits of been a couple. They've never enjoyed and be exposed to joy in marriage.

Which means, it is possible to make a relationship work and not experiencing all the joy and partnership that is possible in a  marriage/dating. 

This means that, been married is far different from finding a sustaining relationships that nourish you and that make you feel good about yourself. 

 How to improve the quality of your life and live your best life

For you to live your best life, you have to be committed to finding something that makes you experience joy most of the time. It is possible to like your job and still not a fulfilling career to you.

Your mission in life, might just be to become a freelance writer, who writes to inspire others. But you found yourself in oil and gas industry. No matter how huge your salary, you are not living a fulfilling life.

Living your best life, has to do with your ability to secure a job that resonates with your passion. The job that gives you an opportunity to contribute to other peoples' live. 

The job that rendered you enough supports in helping others and you are earning a reasonable amount from it.
To live your best life, you must not settle for less. Being successful is not only for you to live a problem free life but your ability to live an acceptable life to yourself. 

Kindly take few minutes to ask yourself if your are living your best life, or you've just settled for less? 

Ask yourself if your life turn out the way you dreamed it would while you were young. Do you dreamed of becoming a politician and you are now a banker? 

What do you think is missing in you and in your life? If there is any and you refused to settle it, you might not be living your best life. 

The best way I can describe it is that, if your life is anything less than anything we can call excellent, you are not living your best life. So don't settle for less. 

For you to live your best life, you must be committed to constantly improving the quality of your life. 

Don’t accept anything else than excellent or perfect.  With your commitment and following up, you will definitely live your best live and improve the quality of your life.

 I Hope This Helps?

Kindly share with others..


  1. It helps oooo. There are lots of things one can put into practice in this post. Very insightful....

    1. Am happy its helpful...thanks for your comment.

  2. Thanks to our motivational speaker

  3. much to learn from this post


  4. "I have seen so many couples who were living together under the same roof. They've never had a problem, but they are not enjoying the benefits of been a couple. They've never enjoyed and be exposed to joy in marriage".
    This is so hard to comprehend.. I thought a problem free Union can be referred to as excellent...
    Uthman how do you do?

    1. Hmmm so many people pretend and try to cope with how things are in their families. They are silent not because they are enjoying all the benefits of partnership, but because they don't want to divorce.

    2. Gloria, oginni! Why you dey always challenge my blog boo

    3. Gloria, oginni! Why you dey always challenge my blog boo

    4. Dear leave Gloria....she is just a good reader who like everything to be clarified.

      How are you doing?

  5. These will be my first time visitting your blog, and belive me uthman..I'm touched, inspire, motivated, captivated by most of your write up I read today. You have actually enlighten me more on things I do not take serious at all....Thank u so much.

    Well done n keep it up


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