Sunday, 22 November 2015

How To Build A Long Lasting Relationship With Your Partner

Long life distance relationship
Building a long lasting relationship is such a difficult thing to achieve in recent time. If you are very observant you will observe that success in relationship management is so rare. Most relationships crash before taking off. While majority of those who had it taken off and got married later resulted into divorce as soon as possible.

After several cases of divorce and break up, I discovered that, the responsible factor for these problems is lack of respect for some basic ethics of  a successful relationships. For one to enjoy what we called a heathy long lasting relationship, he/she must live by those golden principles.

Though giving relarionship what it deserved to be successful could be difficult. But if you know what you enjoy by having a healthy relationship, you won't hesitate to give it what it takes. Good relationships improve your life in all aspects, strengthening your health, your mind and your connections with others as well. On the same vein, it could be one of the greatest drains if the relationship is not working.

Therefore, it is important we see our relationships as a business that needed more of our attention for higher productivity. Healthy love and relationships takes commitment from both partners to work out.

Here Are Few Things To Do To Build A Long Lasting Relationships

1) Improve Your Communication: The first criteria for strengthening your relationship with someone is your ability to have an effective communication. For you to work things out effectively, communication is so important. Most relationships experience disaster because of lack of involvement and communication which increases distance.

You don't have to allow communication gap in your relationship. Try to always get in touch, doing this have a great way of influencing your relationship positively.

2) Resolve All Problems With Your Partners Immediately: You don't have to delay in resolving conflicts between you two. Don't keep malice, demand for explanation and don't tell  the third party. Talk over issues and move on. The most important thing in a strong relationship, is not the ability to avoid conflict. Its the ability to express yourself, without fear of intimidation and settle your misunderstanding.

3) Maintain Your Friendship With Your Friends: You don't just dump every other person because you are in a relationship. Keeping outside relationships and interests alive is very important.

No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Having friends and outside interests not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to your relationship as well.


  1. Nice one bro... This is sure helpful for many relationships today.
    I must add that matters that have been resolved should be buried, not to be dug up as reference when issues arise in future.

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  2. Thanks for sharing. you nailed it

  3. Number 2 is so on point. We must try and resolve every misunderstanding immediately if we must maintain a healthy and lasting relationship


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