Thursday, 3 December 2015

How To Find Out If Your Partner Really Love You

To different people, love mean different things. This make it very difficult for us to find out whether the person we love really love us in return. Many times, we seem to get confused as we can't really tell whether their love for us is genuine or not. Before you continue to remain committed to any relationship with all your heart, it is very important you find out if a person truly loves you instead of just having a crush on you, only like you or just need your money. 

Though there is no sure and guaranteed way to know if a partner really loves you, but you can watch out for some of these signs to help you out..

1) Is He/she Herself Around You? This is very important to find out in order to determine whether someone really love you or not. You need to find out how he/she act when around you. The person that really love you will be completely opened to you. 

Some partner are good in pretense, and no matter how hard you tried to move closer and understand them better, they are just too difficult. If your partner is not always himself around you then you need to watch out. Someone who truly loves you will be opened and bee comfortable around you no matter what.

2) Is He/she Saying Anything About Your Future Together? One thing I know about true love is that you can't have it enough. You will always want more. If you truly love someone, you will always plan to spend the rest of your life with them. In the same vain, if your partner really loves you, then the idea of you being in his/her future plan is certain. 

If  he/she hardly talk about it, and he/she always avoid to talk about it whenever you asked him, then you can conclude that, he might have other future plans in which you are not included. So better you don't waste much of your time on such relationship. If the person talks about what your kids will look like, the schools they will attend, and how you will spend your earnings in future together, then he/she may really love you except if he/she is a deceitful person.

3) Is He/she Always There For You? Being there for you does not mean him breaking a bank to give you money, buy you expensive gifts, take you out and the likes. He/she must be there for you whenever you are in need of a constructive advise, academic supports, and be ready to just solve your problems even if it is not really convenient for them. 

Someone who really love you will be there during the fun time and the hard time. If you only find her around when things is well with you and disappeared in a tough time, then you may be making a serious mistake by relying on such partner.
4) How Often Did He/she Tells You The Truth: Nothing is as much as having a partner that can point out your mistakes whenever you make one. To know if someone really love you and wanna be with you, you need to see if the person is comfortable with pointing out your mistakes. If it's truly love, then that person will be comfortable with telling you when you've made a mistake or acted badly. 

Doing this is not by getting you criticized all the time, but he/she should be able to tell you the truth. Your partner giving you a healthy amount of criticism just means that the person really knows you in and out and accepts your mistakes as well as your best qualities.

5) Is Your Opinion Respected In The Relationship? Someone who really loves you will show concerned on what your opinions are on certain issues. If he really loves you, he'll ask for your advice and opinions, whether it's on big or small matters. He may feel self conscious about asking for your opinion, but he'll do it because he loves you. He doesn't have to ask for your opinion on everything only the things that really matter

I Hope This Helps?


  1. This one is for team snoop... i am not a fan... i believe i can never be in a relationship with someone who doesnt love me.... so no need to take note of some things or investigate

  2. This one is for team snoop... i am not a fan... i believe i can never be in a relationship with someone who doesnt love me.... so no need to take note of some things or investigate

  3. They're all nice relationship tips to guide us in our love lives

  4. good relationship tips. Single bae & guys should take note
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  5. So true.these were what I used to determinew ho to marry.


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