Friday, 29 January 2016

4 Secrets Of Successful Relationship Nobody Will Tell You Until You Find Out

secret of a successful relationship
I may not be in better position to speak for you, but as far as am concern there is no perfect situation in life. If we could not be so boastful of having a perfect life, then how dare we seeking to have a perfect relationship? As my mentor will say, "just put all efforts on your next post am not expecting you to be perfect, because nothing as perfection really exists."  

Life itself is a mixture of both happiness and sadness. Sometimes we do difficult things so easily and succeed, while sometimes we put all efforts on small thing and still fail. Whatever the situation is, we come out of the experience with a new lesson and a new perception about life.

Life is not a bed of rose, and we should not expect our relationships to be. Its something that comprises the good and the ugly. Therefore, if you are going into a relationship bear in mind that relationship can be source of mixed feelings. Expecting your partner to be a perfect angel is the greatest mistake anyone can make.

Below are the simple truths about your relationship

1) Your Partner Is Not Perfect: If you have an assumption that your man is a prince charming or your woman is a queen, that's right. But never expect them to be perfect. Expecting perfection from them provokes your partner's effort to satisfies you. 

No matter how hard they tried, they will constantly fall short of doing something great in your presence. You won't just appreciate them, even when they might have exhausted their provisions and go extra length. So just be calm, and believe he/she is just an ordinary person like you who have a limit, shortfalls and are imperfect.

2) You Will Felt Been Taking For Granted By Your Partner: Compromise is one of the wonderful pillar of building a happy home. Therefore, it is expected that you tolerate your partner to a greater level in any relationship. The bitter truth is, the more we compromise, the higher we face the risk of been taking for granted. 

It is a common fact that the people we love the most will take us for granted more than anyone due to closeness and familiarity. So, don't ever expect a perfect relationship where compromise and tolerance is in operation. Its natural. When you noticed this, don't be heartbroken.

3) External Factors Will Want To Ruin Your Relationship: This is where most couples get it wrong. They believed wonderful home is all about having a good partner. Forgetting that some people will always try to ruin their relationships for no reason. This might be strange to you as a single guy but to those who are already married, its a common thing. 

Some people are just there to envy your relationship. They can’t bear seeing you living fine while they are not. They can't be happy seeing you married while they are divorced or unable to get one. They can't bear seeing you in a happy home while they are not.

These people are not completely external, they could be people you often regard as your closest friends. You go to them for advice and telling them the whole happenings in your relationship. It is necessary that you carefully evaluate every advice from people before you start implementing them into your relationship.
4) Some Partners Don't Deserved You: Sorry dear...I don't know how to put this to be less hurtful. But honestly some people don't deserved what we do for and how we treat them. Love is a very complicated thing that make us do things for people that they could never do for us. 

They may tell you they are seriously in love and promised you heaven and earth, but little hard times in life will actually show who really loves you. Don't be surprised that even the people you have been with for many years will leave you heartbroken, if you are in a serious problem. 

So when you do something for someone, do not expect the same from them, in fact, do not expect any kind of return. This will surprise you if you do get something in return and will not leave you disappointed when you don’t.

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  1. i strongly agree with 4

  2. Why do i focus more on No 4 than the others?
    I guess am not alone, am i?
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  3. Thanks to everyone for the comments..

  4. Nice one bro. The above points are just so correct

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