Wednesday, 17 February 2016

How To Attract Responsible Men For A Productive Relationship

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I noticed that, for some kind of girls, attracting decent, calm and responsible guys for dating is the most difficult thing to do. They hardly got attracted to any guy, and even if they do, they are always with the wrong natures of  guys. Should we now draw up conclusion that most of the responsible, calm guys are already engaged and are no more available for dating? Or we should blame the girls for attracting the wrong class of guys among so many responsible men in town?

Personally, let me say going into relationship in recent time is a serious business and one has to be serious about it in order not to end up with the wrong partner. Most of those girls who don't see it as something to be taking serious often attract the wrong types of guys over and over again.  

After heartbreaks, majority of  the victims put the whole blames on men and accuse them of inconsistent, not committed, irresponsible and heartless. They claim their single status is due to lack of good men around for relationship.

Though am not writing this to defend the male forks, but to tell you that it is often your own attitude that results in you dating one bad boy after another. As a lady, you should not forget that the kind of friends you keep, the way you dressed and speak determines the nature of man you attract.

Therefore for you to attract responsible decent men for a relationship, you just have to do the following below:

1) Be Responsible: Remember the wise saying, 'bird of a feather flock together'. This implies that you are highly likely to attract someone like you. Therefore, for you to attract a responsible guy, you must be responsible and most be seen to be.

If you are not a respective, responsible and decent, you will only attract men who have a similar lack of respect and any sense of responsibility. In this situation, good men will find it more difficult to take you seriously. If you are the kind of girl that love dressing extremely sexy and flirtation, you will definitely not attract any good man than those that are only after your body appearance.

2) You Have To Be Affectionate:  Its always funny to to see girls who are not friendly in any way searching for friendly men to date. How possible please? What most ladies should know is that, most men are attracted to women who are friendly, caring and nice. 

No man want to be with a woman who is not nice, not caring and who cannot sacrifice their needs in anyway. So attitudes and behaviors really matters a lot in the determine the nature of men you will attract as a woman.
3) You Need To Respect Yourself:  Self respect is key in a search for decent men as a lady. You can't overlook that. It is what you must do to attract the right minded men to yourself. No man want to be associated with a loosed girl who has no respect for her personal self talk-less of others. 

For the fact that you need a man does not mean you should go against your moral values and respects.No matter how decent you are, if you present yourself too cheap to men, they will definitely ridicule you. Nobody will see you as been worthy of any respect.

4) Be Valuable: Gone are those days when men do everything in their relationships. This time around, we are for one another. For any man to propose marriage to you, such man must have observed some useful abilities in you that can transform his life into a useful one. No responsible man want to marry liability. Every man wants to be with a woman who is great. 

It is natural that, a man will fall in love with a woman who will help him become more strong and responsible in life. A woman who will support his dream and helped him achieved his goals in life. If you are a lady that managed to do this for your man, he will have no choice but to crave being with you. 

By doing this, you are creating a positive energy that will encourage him to feel better about everything about himself. The more he feels good about himself next to you, the more you will become irresistible to him. You can now see that it is so simple to attract responsible men...Just work on yourself.

I Hope This Helps?


  1. Useful relationship tips. I hope our single ladies out there will take note of this

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  2. The first point said it all. You can't be irresponsible and expect to attract a responsible man. Likes attract likes.

  3. The first point said it all. You can't be irresponsible and expect to attract a responsible man. Likes attract likes.

  4. all well and fine by me yet, NO 3 does the magic for me... great tips..

  5. Yes, ladies we need to respect ourself to attract a good man

  6. Great relationship tips. I like No 4, being valuable to your partner

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  7. Richard Sanders8 April 2016 at 02:43

    just be nice to him, and think of him, and if you dont know where to find one, visit my blog to find out!enjoy


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